When was the last time you found your plans for yourself in direct confrontation with the plans your family and friends have for you. How did u react?
I can think of 2 reactions:
You give up. Family and friends come first. I'm not selfish.
You stick to your stand. They will understand. After all, what are friends and family there for.
Ofcourse, I'm ruling out the well said but difficult to follow route of compromise of both sides.
Which one you choose depends on what kind of person you are and also the type of confrontation.
Say, it is about choosing between a official tour that can go without you and a family reunion. The choice you make here, whichever it is, is inconsequential.
Now say, if it is about a career choice, What will be your choice??
January 28, 2009
The problem with dilemma
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2 comments:
Mine is different case...my family is my biggest motivation and incubator of my career goals.... so i dont think i can totally undersatnd ur problem...anyways hav fun making choices
U're lucky!!
I'm lucky too....A bit of opposition helps in refining and sharpening your convictions!!!
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